How Do You Dry After Using a Bidet: A Guide for Every Bidet User

How Do You Dry After Using a Bidet
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A bidet is not exactly universal, but it is definitely useful when it comes to personal hygiene.

You can think of it as a small sink or a toilet with faucets that is meant to clean up your anal area and genitals with water. It is rare to see a bidet in a bathroom in North America. 

However, it is quite popular in many countries across Asia and Europe, especially the hand bidet. If you are new to bidets and have questions about how to use it properly or how do you dry after using a bidet, we are here to help you out.

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When it comes to using a bidet, that will solely depend on the type of bidet that you installed or plan to install. Thus, it is but worthy to learn about each kind that is available in the market as well as those installed in public toilets.

What Kinds of Bidets Are There?

Bidets have seen massive improvements and changes over the years. The sink-type bidet has now been replaced by the handheld bidet and bidet seats that are fixed into the toilet. 

The handheld bidets, commonly called bidet showers or hand showers, are very popular as they do not take much space and are easy to use. However, they require you to target the area you want to clean manually. This is done on the toilet seat, so the water flushes down the toilet drain.

The traditional bidet is fixed right next to the toilet and requires its own separate plumbing. It usually resembles a toilet, except there is no flush tank and instead you have a couple of taps and a jet at the center of it.

On the other hand, the modern toilet seat bidets are fixed right under the toilet seat and have a nozzle that is connected to a remote found next to the toilet or even on it. Some are activated mechanically whenever you pull a lever or turn a tap.

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How to Use Bidets?

As mentioned, the purpose of this fitting in a bathroom is to clean up after using the toilet. The most common one is, of course, after defecating.

Females, however, also use it to clean up after peeing or when they have their monthly periods. People who are physically limited use bidets for all such purposes.

  • Standalone Bidets

On the standalone bidets, you can either sit facing towards it or face the opposite way. Obviously, facing towards the controls would be much better. If you are facing towards the faucet, you might need to take off your pants.

There is no seat on traditional bidets, so you just have to sit on it with your legs swinging around. You will see different taps for hot and cold running water.

Gradually turn on the tap for hot water first and see if the temperature is right. You can turn on the cold water to adjust the temperature as per your need. In the summertime, you can do it just with the cold tap on.

Adjust yourself in a way that the bidet faucet directly targets your anal area that you are trying to clean. Be gentle when opening the tap as you never know how much the pressure is in it. Most bidets have some pressure that should be enough to clean up the area; however, you can use your hands to clean up diligently.

  • Modern Bidets

The process of using a traditional bidet might seem a little tedious. Luckily, for the modern bidets, it is rather simpler because you just need a press of the button and everything will work fine.

Most of the time, you can find the control buttons near the toilet seat and these too usually have a warm or cold water option. Some even have pressure level controls.

As such, tweak the settings to meet your specific needs, then, look for the start button. Once you press it, the nozzle will start spraying, and you can use a toilet paper, your hand, or nothing at all. You can stop the nozzle if there is a stop button. Others, however, can shut automatically.

  • Bidet Showers

When using handheld bidet showers, the handle is the only thing that needs to be pressed. Then you can aim the area and maneuver it to clean up. Again, be very careful about the pressure and temperature of the water. You can utilize the valve to adjust the pressure before pressing the handle.

How Do You Dry After Using a Bidet?

Sadly, there are many misconceptions regarding bidets. A common one is that the use of bidet will result in a mess and will leave you wet. That is not completely true as you can easily dry up after using it. The modern bidet seats even have drying options. If you press the ‘Dry’ button, provided there is one, the air dryer will dry the area. If you are using the traditional bidet, you can dry using toilet paper or a towel.

In most public toilets with bidets, towels are provided on a ring next to it. However, using a paper towel is a more hygienic and safe option. On the other hand, with bidet showers, chances are only part of your nether regions is wet so it becomes even easier to dry. Once you are all dried up, you can rinse the bidet or toilet to keep it clean and fresh for next use.

You can now finally wash your hands with soap and dry them up using a towel or the dryer machine. Your nether region, your hands, and the bathroom are all clean and dry without hassles.

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Conclusion

Bidets are not new, but they are just starting to become popular around the world. That is why there are quite a lot of misconceptions regarding them, especially when it comes to being messy or unsanitary.

On the contrary, they help you stay clean and do so in a hygienic way. That is, of course, as long as you know how to properly use each type of bidet as well as the proper techniques on how to dry after using a bidet.

25 thoughts on “How Do You Dry After Using a Bidet: A Guide for Every Bidet User”

  1. This is a subject I have wondered about for a long time, being from the south where we don’t really have bidets. I commend you on your creative content and thank you for being bold and brave enough to tackle it.

    Not sure I’d want to have one in my home as grandchildren might decide to have some creative play time in the new “tiny pool” … you just never know what they will come up with these days.

    Tammy

  2. Thanks for the tips on how to dry off after using a bidet. We are getting ready to purchase a couple of portable bidet…and to be honest, we were not sure what happens after you clean everything up.

    It seems like a paper towel (not toilet paper) would be best, as it doesn’t fall apart when wet. Which got me wondering…is there any brand of toilet paper that is strong like a paper towel?

    My only concern with using two ply heavy duty tp is that we have a septic system…and too much of this stuff can cause problems. But then again, since you are just drying off, the paper towels or tp could just be tossed in the waste bin.

    Anyway, thanks for the helpful article!

  3. Thank goodness you explained how to use a bidet. I think I would be totally lost. Boy, it sure seems like a lot of work just to go to the bathroom but just like anything else, I think people would get used to it. It does seem a bit intimidating though.

  4. Advance My House

    Hi, guys,

    We recommend using a specific towel strictly for drying or a good brand paper towel after using the bidet.

    Toilet paper brands which you can consider getting are Charmin Ultra Strong, Cottonelle Ultra ComfortCare or the Scott 1000. These are the strongest we see on the market.

    You shouldn’t have a problem with clogging your septic tank, just as long as you are using small quantities of TP, and of course, you could simply pat dry and dispose in a lined bathroom trash can.

    All the best as you get your new bidets.

  5. Derek Marshall

    Hi,

    Talking of Bidets which are actually quite common in Europe but not the UK. I was, when I immigrated to Asia confused in regards to the spray bidet more commonly known amongst expats as the bum gun..

    ..I actually thought the darn thing was for washing my feet, while a friend thought it was for cleaning the floor…

    I do actually prefer bidet now, much cleaner!

  6. Very good article and the first I’ve seen on the use of a bidet. I think they are a more hygienic way of going about things than the toilet paper method we seem so fond of in the west.
    An Asian chap once told me of his bemusement at our use of toilet paper in the west – ‘if you had chocolate around your mouth you’d wash it off, not smear it all over your face with paper’ – was his view, I think he had a point.
    The Japanese style automated toilets seem very good, have you encountered these? Heated seats I believe! Luxury!

  7. Advance My House

    That’s hilarious, Derek! LOL…

    In-fact, many people (especially in the western world) do get confused because they are not sure what bidet toilet seat really are.

    Well the good news is that we have provided a great explanation here. It’s a highly recommended read for you & anyone else who wants to know what a bidet toilet seat really is.

    Thanks for dropping by to leave your comment.

  8. Hi Jason!

    What a great topic for an article!! While I’ve never personally used a bidet (though I’ve been curious as to how exactly to do so properly) I’ve never even thought about drying methods once you are clean.

    I’ll admit that I had the same misconception that you mention in regards to a bidet leaving things a bit of a mess down there. But now I know more and feel more prepared for my next trip to Europe or Asia.

    Thanks!

  9. Thank you for sharing how to dry after using a Bidet. Very neat and would be a great value to add to a remodeled bathroom. It’ll come in handy.

    I wonder if it is common or necessary to add a drain near the toilet as well for draining excess water from the bidet?

  10. Advance My House

    Hey Tucker. 

    It’s great to know that you have learned something valuable from the article.  Feel free to browse the site for more helpful advice. 

    Cheers!

  11. “Dry up”??? Don’t you think that “dry” by itself is good enough? What about “dry off,” “dry out,” “dry through,” “dry forward,” “dry back,” “dry forth,” or “dry down”?? Don’t be redundant. You don’t have to add meaningless, unnecessary words. Maybe you’re paid by the word.

  12. I have never used a bidet; is the water cold? And if you are dripping water afterwards, what’s the point(if it doesn’t have a dryer)?

  13. Hi Bunny,

    Since there are different types of bidets, you’ll find that you can choose to use a towel to dry or an automatic dryer once it’s provided.

    You can always adjust the water settings to the temperature which suits you best.

    You have never used a bidet?! You definitely need to make that upgrade as soon as possible. Not only do they clean you much more effectively than toilet paper, but they are also more environmentally friendly.

    Check out our article on the best bidet toilet seats here.

    Enjoy.

  14. I’ve been using a bidet for 20 yrs. Due to medical issues that can arise from type 2 diabetes .. Born & raised in North America. I highly recommend using a bidet ..I prefer the handheld bum gun lol
    More control over the targeted area being cleaned ..also when out & about using public restrooms I make a portable bidet out of a plastic bottle & use viva brand paper towels to dry off ..really absorbent & no mess or swampbutt left over ..

  15. Thank you for this article.
    We are considering adding bidets to our toilets in response to the TP Drought of 2020 brought on by COVID-19. Everything makes sense to me except for one thing: Towels.
    If one elects to use cloth, how hygienic is that?
    How does one maintain towel hygiene?
    Need they be washed after every use?
    Should each family member have their own in each bathroom?
    I get that the easy towel solution is to use paper towels, but we’re also trying to limit paper usage in our house, so that answer conflicts with another concern.
    I appreciate any advice you can send my way.

  16. Hi, Sean, thanks for your questions.

    We suggest that each family member has their own private cloth towel in each bathroom if possible.

    You also want to make sure that these towels are being washed and sanitized properly.

    Because of the high demand of TP and paper towels in general, you can also consider getting a quality bidet with an automatic dryer.

    The KOHLER K-4108-0 Electric Bidet Toilet Seat is a great option to look at.

    You can also read our full review here.

    I hope this helps to answer your questions.

    And if you have any other questions, please feel free to reply here.

    Stay safe now.

  17. As females are about half of the population (perhaps slightly more), and most people urinate several more times a day than they defecate, it’s a mystery why the most common use of a bidet would be cleaning up after the latter. Guided by the same simple math, certainly most toilet paper is used after urination, not after defecation.
    Otherwise, Raoul, thanks for an informative introduction to bidets.

  18. Lynette Daniels

    You said using a towel to dry off was the best way. That sounds nasty! Do you leave it for the next person to use. Or keep a stack of towels for family & guests? Seems like a soft paper towel would work because they can be thrown in a trash can. There are some cheap ones that are soft to dry you bum. Still Sounds trashy!?

  19. My sister has had a bidet for years. I hate it. I much prefer toilet paper and flushable wipes. The wipes do a great job and you don’t get so wet all over your butt. Stacking towels for every family member is just another job for me to worry with. Most people don’t “go” but once a day. Most people bathe daily. It seems silly to me. If you don’t like wipes you can clean the biggest mess with toilet paper, then use a wash cloth. Much to do about nothing. And yes, they are seen by children as a water toy.

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